How to talk about your weaknesses in a job interview without undermining yourself
“What’s your greatest weakness?”
It’s one of the most uncomfortable questions in a job interview, but also one of the most revealing. How you answer says a lot about your self-awareness, honesty, and growth mindset.
The good news? You don’t need a perfect answer. You need a thoughtful, strategic one.
This guide will show you how to talk about your weaknesses in a way that’s honest and helps, not hurts, your chances.
Why interviewers ask about weaknesses
- 🧠 To see how self-aware and reflective you are
- 🌱 To understand how you approach growth and learning
- 📉 To check whether your weakness would affect your ability to succeed in the role
It’s not a trap. It’s a test of emotional intelligence.
What makes a great “weakness” answer?
A good response includes three things:
- Honesty: pick a real, relatable weakness (not fake humble)
- Insight: show how it shows up in your work
- Growth: explain what you’ve done to improve
Weaknesses you can safely talk about (with examples)
1. Difficulty delegating
“I used to struggle with delegation, I felt more comfortable doing things myself to make sure they were done right. But I’ve learned that trust and clear expectations are far more scalable. Now I check in rather than take over.”
2. Public speaking
“Presenting to large groups used to intimidate me. I avoided it early in my career, but I’ve since taken speaking workshops and now volunteer to lead team updates. It’s still a stretch, but it’s no longer a fear.”
3. Saying “yes” too much
“I used to take on too much, I’m naturally eager to help. But I’ve learned that overcommitting helps no one. Now I ask clarifying questions before agreeing and use prioritization frameworks with my manager.”
4. Asking for help
“I used to think asking questions showed weakness. But in my last role, I saw how collaboration and clarity actually speed up success. Now I ask sooner, and more often, when I hit roadblocks.”
5. Perfectionism
“I tend to over-polish before sharing work. While quality matters, I’ve learned that speed and feedback are just as important. I now aim for ‘excellent and done’ rather than ‘perfect and late.’”
Tip: The goal isn’t to impress. It’s to show maturity, insight, and a willingness to grow.
What NOT to say as your weakness
❌ “I work too hard” / “I’m a perfectionist” (without context)
These sound cliché or fake unless you back them up with a real challenge and what you’ve done about it.
❌ “I don’t have any weaknesses”
This signals a lack of self-awareness and can come off as arrogant or evasive.
❌ Anything that’s essential to the role
If you’re interviewing for a sales role, don’t say you hate talking to people. Choose something that’s adjacent, not core.
How to choose the right weakness for the role
- ✅ Pick something real, but not disqualifying
- ✅ Show growth, what are you actively improving?
- ✅ Align it with the role: avoid anything central to success
Bonus: A simple template you can use
“One area I’ve been working on is [real weakness]. In the past, this showed up when [brief example]. I’ve since [what you’ve done to improve], and while I’m still working on it, I’ve made noticeable progress and it’s no longer a blocker.”
Final thought: Vulnerability is strength
Talking about your weaknesses doesn’t make you look weak, it makes you look honest, grounded, and coachable.
Interviewers aren’t looking for perfection. They’re looking for self-awareness, humility, and a commitment to growth.
Final thought: Every strength has a shadow. Great candidates know how to name theirs and turn it into a story of growth.